Kink Meme

[sapphoatsunset]

1. Visit the master list, select your favorite 100
2. Post your favorite 100 or more behind a cut in your LJ (or if you can’t pick 100, as many as you can without going over)
3. Your f-list’s job is to write you "comment porn" for your favorites. And yes, bold for extra favorites. XD
(If they want to write you comment porn) XD ♥
For those on LJ, I originally did this here and am now updating it. Pairing and other info here.

1. Abuse (sexual, emotional, and/or violent childhood abuse; past abusive relationships; character A's abuse drives character B into arms of character C; the wounded child as an adult archetype)
2. Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)
3. Age differences (e.g., older man/younger man pairing)
4. Amazons and strong women (warrior women; women as soldiers, law enforcement figures, or leaders; goddesses; tough, butch, or muscled women; lesbians or dykes; quasi-masculine characteristics in general, such as a boyish body type: slim, athletic, and small-breasted; forcefulness or brusqueness)
5. Anal penetration with foreign objects
6. Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on)
7. Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)
8. Angst (see Emotional themes)
9. Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, dominant (snarling; sniffing; scent-marking or biting; other claiming acts; territoriality; predatory stalking; cuffing; forcing the partner's neck down; claws and other features)
10. Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, submissive (feral characters or behavior; domesticated pet behavior such as sitting at owner's foot and cheeking their thigh; purring; licking; characters objectified as animals, e.g., ponyboys)
11. Animal themes or fetishization (physical transformation, e.g., animagi or werewolves; animalistic features; hirsutism as a fetish; tentacle sex; quasi animal forms such as centaurs, merfolk, intelligent dragons; pets, wild or domesticated; familiars; men showing affection toward animals, e.g., holding kittens, or nuzzling their horses; see also Otherness)
12. Anonymous sex (clubbing; glory-holes; alley sex; alien fertility rituals; one-night stands)
13. Anti-heroes (sympathetic villains; villains with principles; noble demons; enemies who keep their word)
14. Aristocracy (aristocratic behaviors, characteristics, and/or identity; chivalry and noblesse oblige; royal blood; elegance or effeteness; dignity; royal courts or castles; imperial cultures; Greco-Roman classicism; dynastic families; gentlemen; aristocrat pairings with houseboys, stable-boys, or secretaries)
15. Asphyxiation (asphyxiophilia; autoerotic asphyxiation; scarfing; choking; breath play)
16. Ass-play and/or fetishization (ass lifted in the air for penetration; emphasized by harness or blue jeans; ass slapping; spreading cheeks; rimming)
17. Attention (singling someone out; treating someone specially in front of others; making a point of showing respect to or interest in someone who doesn't usually receive it; observing, studying, or analyzing someone to understand them)
18. AUs (alternate characterizations and situations; sex between alternates of one character or between different characters; alternates as catalysts for realization of desire; role reversal; darker mirror universe characters; mistaken identity) Except for Time Travel
19. Auctions (slave or slave charity)
20. Bad boys (punks, rebels; see also Rogues)
21. Bad girls (dirty girls; naughty schoolgirls; femme fatales)
22. Baths and water (tubs or jacuzzis; hot springs; bath houses or steam rooms; the ocean; swimming pools; see also Washing; Shower sex)
23. BDSM
24. Begging or offering (begging or pleading for mercy, for sexual release, to be taken; a character offering himself; neediness)
25. Bisexuality
26. Biting (marking, nipping, chewing)
27. Blindness (see Voyeurism and vision themes)
28. Blood (fetishization of wounds; blood-play; blood as lube; vampirism)
29. Blow-jobs (oral sex, fellatio)
30. Body modification (geek-to-jock makeovers; physical enhancements such as wetwear; alien transformations; scarification and piercing; forced feminization or castration; see also Otherness)
31. Body-painting or inkbrushing on someone's skin
32. Body swap
33. Bodyguard scenarios (See also Protectiveness)
34. Bondage
35. Bonds (telepathic or empathic; psychic links; mating or soul bonds)
36. Bottoming
37. Boys (pretty boys; bishounen/bishonen; boyish types; pocket-sized cuties; puppies; Persian Boy characters; houseboys or stable-boys; toyboys)
38. Branding (erotic or non-erotic)
39. Breath (as a caress; hitching or ragged; indrawn breath or gasps; sighs)
40. Brothels
41. Bruises and other wounds
42. Bukkake
43. Canon (canon elements/canonicity heightens characterization or scenario)
44. Celibacy (e.g., someone's celibacy as a challenge to seduction)
45. Charisma (see Powers of attraction)
46. Chastity devices
47. Cinderella stories (rescuing someone from servitude or cruel family; going from rags to riches; Pretty Woman scenarios; fairy-tale romances in general)
48. Claiming or establishing ownership (private or public; by gesture, word, or ritual; with sex; with a collar and leash; with scent-marking or by biting)
49. Closeted partner(s) (see also Orientation issues; Society)
50. Clothes fetishization (of any kind, e.g., uniforms; leather gear; worn blue jeans; thigh-highs; stilettos; leather jackets; tuxedos or GQ wear; constricting or modest clothes; boxer-briefs; going commando)
51. Clumsiness (awkwardness; overeagerness; during sex or in general)
52. Cock and/or ball torture (whipping, stretching, catheters, etc)
53. Cock bondage (cock rings; harnesses and straps; leather ropework)
54. Cock worship
55. Collars (slave)
56. Coming without being touched
57. Conditioning (taming or breaking a character; training; brainwashing; Stockholm syndrome)
58. Condoms
59. Conflicts and challenges (war and combat in general; sieges; Die Hard scenarios; jousting; gladiatorial games; wrestling and sparring; duels of honor; bets and sports competitions; romantic rivalries; seduction viewed as a challenge; misunderstandings and fights; break-ups; traded insults; stormy relationships; family strife; personality clashes; cultural differences; philosophical disagreements)
60. Courtesans or geishas
61. Courting and dating (courtship rituals; dating; blind dates; personal ads; traditional gestures such as flowers and chocolates; unusual gestures designed to win someone's attention; showing off or displaying prowess; rivals seeking a character's favor; see also Seduction)
62. Cross-dressing (forced or voluntary; drag queens or transvestites; see also Gender themes)
63. Crossovers (characters thrust into other universes; canon universes merged; sex between characters played by same actor)
64. Cunnilingus
65. Daddy themes (fetishization and role-play; difficult father-son relationships; sugar daddies; paternalism in general)
66. Deep-throating
67. Delayed gratification
68. Depilation (waxing, shaving)
69. Dildos (dildo gags; harnesses; strap-ons; ritual phalluses)
70. Discipline or punishment
71. Discomfort during sex (rough edge of a table as counterpoint to pleasure; cold stone versus hot flesh; position is uncomfortable at first but then becomes perfect; penetration is painful, then pleasurable)
72. Disorders (phobias; neuroses; obsessive-compulsive disorder; see also Insanity; Emotional themes)
73. Domesticity (moving in together; nesting; shopping; building a family or meeting the family; getting a cat or dog; kidfic)
74. Dominance and submission (See also Submission; Servitude; Master and slave, etc)
75. Double penetration (anal, vaginal, or oral)
76. Dystopias (apocalyptic or post-apocalyptic worlds; alien invasions; pandemics; computers take over; settings in Hell, or earth becomes Hell)
77. Emotional themes, emo-kink (angst; wallows; darkfic; emotional damage; psychological trauma; tragic pasts; broken characters; guilt and shame; mental instability; sadness and grief; abandonment or fear of same; characters who can't go home again; fear in general; nightmares; loneliness; broken-heartedness; failure; insecurity; self-hatred; self-mutilation such as secret cutting; suicide; see also Insanity)
78. Endearments (see Names)
79. Enemas
80. Enemies working together
81. Ensembles (elite teams of explorers, spies, law enforcement figures, etc; sentai; military squadrons; skilled teams operating like clockwork, such as when pulling off a heist; bands of rebels; families; surrogate families; outcasts, e.g., freaks and geeks; carnival troupes; motley characters thrown together by fate; alternatives to society e.g., Robin Hood and his Merry Men, Peter Pan and the Lost Boys; see also Witnesses)
82. Erotic torture
83. Exhibitionism
84. Exoticism (fetishization of Far Eastern culture and aesthetics, which may be adapted and generalized for fictional worlds; e.g., harems and harem culture; veils; silk clothes; Turkish baths; pleasure pavilions; royal courts; lush gardens; island paradises; opium dens; casbahs and bazaars; tents; imperial royal figures such as sheikhs or sultans; köçek troupes; court figures such as dancers and storytellers; floor pillows; furs or skins as rugs or bedding; feasts; tapestries; Persian rugs; oil lamps; wild animals as pets; opulence, decadence, and sensuality in general)
85. Exposure (with or without eroticism; feeling physically exposed, such as with legs open; a woman's shirt being opened to expose her breasts; characters being forced to undress in public; someone opening a door on people having sex)
86. Face-fucking (blow-job)
87. Face-sitting (straddling for blow-job or cunnilingus)
88. Fake rake (a man falsely rumored to be promiscuous, who isn't; romance novel term)
89. Falling (falling from grace; going bad; turning to the Dark Side; Faustian deals; succumbing to temptation or addiction; degradation and descent in general)
90. Fantasies (shared or solitary; role-playing)
91. Feminine terms used for males (e.g., calling a man a bitch, calling his ass a pussy; using condescending endearments such as honey or precious)
92. Femmes (effeminacy)
93. Fetishes for objects not listed elsewhere (shoes, cigarettes, lipstick, coffee cups, eyeglasses, motorcycles, canes, etc)
94. Finger-fucking (as preparation, foreplay, accompaniment, or main act)
95. First times (first time between two individuals; losing virginity/cherry; first time doing a particular act; first time with a particular gender)
96. Fisting (anal or vaginal)
97. Flirting (conscious or unconscious; with glances or touches; banter)
98. Forbidden pleasures (love affairs or trysts; in general, wanting someone or something that's expressly forbidden)
99. Forced feminization (see also Gender themes)
100. Forced orgasm
101. Foreplay
102. Friction or frottage (naked or clothed; masturbatory or with partner; cocks rubbing together; tribadism; intercrural sex; someone rubbing off on sheets while giving head or being fucked; itchiness and scratching; chafing clothes; friction while on horseback or riding a motorcycle; accidental contact)
103. Friendship and affection (gestures of friendship; epic friendships a la Gilgamesh/Enkidu or Alexander/Hephaistion; friendship as pre-slash)
104. Friendship sex or buddy-sex (fuck buddies)
105. Gags (ball-gags, scarves, mouth bits, etc)
106. Gayness (self-identification as gay; gay pride; queer culture; homophobia; see also Orientation issues)
107. Geeks and nebbishes (Peter Parker or Clark Kent characters; computer geeks; lab rats; nerds; intellectuals; personal secretaries; beta males; sidekicks; men in glasses; oddballs and eccentrics)
108. Geek/jock pairings
109. Gender themes (gender confusion; sex changes; genderfucks; hermaphrodites; cross-dressing or other forms of genderbending; drag queens and transvestites; androgyny; forced feminization; butch/femme; tomboys)
110. Gentleness (tenderness; kindness; concern; gentle natures; characters who display sensitivity to fearful children, animals, the weak, etc; gentle responses at unexpected moments)
111. Getaways (romantic weekends; tropical vacations; ski chalets)
112. Girls (dancing girls; cat-girls; schoolgirls; bishoujo; magical girls; cheerleaders; see also Bad Girls; Good girls)
113. Going native (see also Primitivism)
114. Golden showers
115. Guns and gun-play (guns as fetish objects; gun-battles as flirting or foreplay; guns used for sexual penetration; games of Russian Roulette; see also Military fetishization)
116. Historical and period settings
117. Human furniture
118. Humiliation (erotic or non-erotic)
119. Humor (funny banter, screwball comedy, etc)
120. Humor as a mask (characters who hide pain behind humor)
121. Hurt/comfort (emotional and/or physical, including torture of all kinds and degrees, and any form of caretaking)
122. Ice princesses, snow queens (cold characters who may or may not succumb to melting; need not be female)
123. Immobilization and/or helplessness
124. Impotence
125. Imprisonment, erotic (cages, cells, closets, coffins, etc)
126. Imprisonment, other (see Prison scenarios)
127. Incest (including brother/sister complex)
128. Intelligence (quick wit; street smarts; Machiavellian cleverness; Sherlock Holmesian deductive powers; geniuses; experts; criminal masterminds; see also Special powers and skills; Geeks and nebbishes)
129. Knives and knife-play
130. Lady and the Tramp pairings (see also Rough behavior; Rogues)
131. Lesbians or dykes (includes lesbianism as erotica for men)
132. Magical themes (love spells; magical characters or creatures; magical lands or settings; predictions; curses; possession; fairytales; magical girls; see also Special powers and skills)
133. Make-overs
134. Masochism
135. Medical scenarios and fetishization
136. Mindfuck, mindgames
137. Oral fixation or fetishization (lips, tongue, or whole mouth; french-kissing; licking; oral displays using food or beer bottles; smoking cigarettes, cigars, or pipes; biting or chewing one's lip(s))
138. Orgasm denial
139. Orientation issues (confusion; discovery and coming out; self-hatred; two-beer queers; homosexual panic)
140. Paraphilias not listed elsewhere - Small Cock Humiliation XP
141. Pillow biting
142. Playing hard to get
143. Ponies (human ponies)
144. Possessiveness or jealousy
145. Power issues (inequities in beauty, rank, or class; power games; BDSM; power reversals; sheikhs, sultans, princes, and other royal figures; teacher/student pairings; magical powers; abuse of power; blackmail; romantic slavery; liege/lord pairings; issues of respect; sexual scenarios such as a dominant character giving his partner to others to use, or a character kneeling beneath a desk and blowing someone who's on the phone)
146. Power issues, sociopolitical (colonialism; alien invasion or rule; institutionalized slavery; totalitarian states and rebellion; powerful secret societies, e.g., the Illuminati or Watcher-style organizations)
147. Powers of attraction (characters such as sirens and Veelas; vampiric thrall; pheromones; magnetic and charismatic characters in general)
148. Predator/prey pairings
149. Prostitutes (call-girls and hookers; rent boys and hustlers; escorts; paying one's way through school with sideline hooking; juvenile past on the streets)
150. Pushy bottom
151. Restraint (pinning someone down; pushing someone's arm up behind their back during sex; covering or clasping someone's hands to prevent movement)
152. Restraints (handcuffs, leather ties, chains, etc)
153. Restraints, full-body (stocks; suspension harnesses; fisting slings; rape racks)
154. Reversal of role or fortune (loss of love, power, rank, etc; hunter becomes prey, master becomes slave; a strong character is made weak; role-reversal games; Flowers for Algernon scenario)
155. Rimming or tongue-fucking
156. Rogues (outlaws, highwaymen, mercenaries, pirates, gangsters, hitmen, etc; black sheep and royal bastards; Han Solo characters; tricksters; see also Violent and dark natures and Rough behavior)
157. Romance (see Love and passion; Courting; Seduction)
158. Ropework (intricate/artistic erotic bondage)
159. Rough sex (quick and dirty sex; hate or grudge sex; angry sex; fighting/wrestling; jackhammer fucking; sex with no or little lube)
160. Sadism or sadomasochism
161. Sandwich sexual position or chain fuck (threesome)
162. Scars or scarification
163. School themes and fetishization (boarding schools; dojos; scholarly gowns and uniforms; sailor fuku; prep school chic; teacher/student pairings; donnish or professorial characters; prefects/head boys; caning; schoolboy hijinks or sexual discovery; military academies; tutoring and teaching in general; see also Conditioning)
164. Secret admirers
165. Secret identity (superheroes, slayers, immortals, mutants, etc; disguised gender; spies)
166. Secrets, other (dark or criminal past; double lives; previous marriage and/or children; unspoken feelings)
167. Seduction (one-on-one; two-on-one; verbal or physical; intense erotic courtship or teasing; see also Courting)
168. Sensory overload or enhancement
169. Sex change (gender swap; forced feminization; see also Gender themes)
170. Sex in public or semi-public places
171. Sex in vehicles (cars, taxis, limos; planes or space shuttles; motorcycles; carnival rides)
172. Sex is interrupted
173. Sex on, against, or under furniture
174. Sex outdoors/outside (in a field; in a rainstorm; with snow falling; on the beach; in a graveyard; in an alley)
175. Sex slaves or mates (concubines, catamites, etc)
176. Sex standing up (including against a wall)
177. Sex with clothes still on or partly on
178. Sexual appetite or excess (hypersexuality, i.e., high sex drive; sex addiction or compulsive behavior; short/no refractory period; multiple orgasms; multiple partners; indiscriminate sex or sluttishness)
179. Sexual discovery (of one's orientation; of new kinds of pleasure; of one's partner)
180. Sexual experience or expertise (high number of partners; wide variety of sexual experience; demonstrating experience by taking the lead in sex or teaching one's partner)
181. Sexual frustration (orgasm denial or being unable to come; blue balls; enforced abstinence; self-denial; inability of two people to touch)
182. Sexual hang-ups
183. Sexual movements (back arching; hips lifting; thrusting back; writhing, jerking, bucking; clenching; grinding or rocking; trembling or shivering; hooking legs around shoulders; pressing someone's legs back toward the bed; riding someone's fingers)
184. Sharing (sharing a beer bottle, joint, or bucket of popcorn; loaning someone clothes; a character letting someone stay in their home; sharing confidences; sharing a woman)
185. Shower sex
186. Shyness (embarrassment; blushing or stammering; body shyness or dysmorphic disorder; cultural modesty)
187. Silence (slave silence; silence as an erotic element in sex; trying to be silent during semi-public sex; going nonverbal or speechless with arousal; traumatic mutism; selective mutism; sign language; gestures used to convey feelings rather than words; see also Clams)
188. Simultaneous orgasm
189. Sixty-nine (69)
190. Slavery (see Master and slave)
191. Snark
192. Society (social mores and morality; laws; institutional regulations such as Don't Ask Don't Tell; elaborate rituals or ceremonies; social events such as feasts and parties; decorum; formal or deferential modes of address; see also Witnesses)
193. Spanking (over the knee or lap, etc)
194. Special powers and skills (superhero powers; magical powers; telekinesis; shapeshifting; hyperdeveloped senses; combat expertise; sharpshooting; eidetic memory; computer hacking skills; thief skills; temporary gifts of power from drugs, alien devices, etc, repercussions of which could include delusions of godhood, dangerous physical or mental overload, and so on)
195. Spooning
196. Sports themes and fetishization (sports rivalries; uniforms and jock-straps; wrestling and sweaty exertion in general; locker-room or shower scenes; team gang-bangs; swimmer/surfer body types; pool and billiards games)
197. Striking with implements (whips, belts, riding crops, canes, paddles, etc)
198. Striptease
199. Submission (obedience; submissive behaviors such as boot kissing, crawling, keeping one's eyes lowered, or kneeling for master; believing in cultural dictates of submissive behavior; abasement in general)
200. Surprises
201. Swallowing (come)
202. Swords and sword-play
203. Tattoos (decorative, symbolic, or slave; barcodes)
204. Teasing or tickling
205. Techno (technophilic themes; artificial humans; character is copied or downloaded into mechanical host body; other ghost in the machine scenarios; androids and cyborgs as sexual partners; wetwear enhancements; cyberpunk aesthetic; VR or Matrix scenarios; see also Otherness)
206. Telepathy (see also Bonds and mental abilities; Special powers and skills)
207. Temperamental personalities (driven or obsessed; hot-tempered or testy; moody; misanthropic or bitter; abrasive)
208. Tentacle sex
209. Threesomes (M/F/M, M/M/M, etc)
210. Top/bottom pairings (also seme/uke)
211. Topping
212. Topping from the bottom
213. Tragic flaws
214. Trust and vows (promises are kept or broken; loyalty or betrayal; absolute trust or doubt; fidelity or infidelity; blindfolds or bondage as trust symbols; commitment or fear of commitment; acts of devotion; marriage vows; unconditional love; blood brothers and oaths; showing trust/faith in someone's abilities)
215. Undressing (undressing in front of someone for the first time; one character undressing another; fumbling clumsily to get undressed; stripteases)
216. Urgency for sex (begging to suck cock; desperate to fuck; greedy bottom)
217. UST (unresolved sexual tension)
218. Vaginal/female genital fetishization (wet, tight; virginal; aching/stiff clit; wide lips; multi-orgasmic)
219. Vaginal penetration (e.g., deep dicking)
220. Vaginal penetration with foreign objects
221. Vampires
222. Violence (see Conflict; Death)
223. Violent feelings (hatred; murderous rage; need for revenge)
224. Violent and dark natures (sadists; assassins and murderers; sociopaths who make twisted, scary displays of affection, conflating love and violence; criminals and villains in general; characters who are ruthless, merciless, casually vengeful; soulless demons or vampires; monsters in general)
225. Virgins or inexperienced partners
226. Voice fetishization (cracking or broken; husky, low, throaty; purring; accents; whispering close to someone's ear)
227. Voyeurism and vision themes (character A secretly watches B and C have sex; character A is forced to watch B and C have sex; character A watches character B perform/masturbate; viewing one's beloved in general; taking pictures or video; eye contact, especially as flirting; establishing authority with a look; closing eyes as a trust gesture; character A feeling that character B truly sees him, when no one else does; the quality of light, e.g., characters lit by moonlight or candlelight, or gilded by the setting sun; being in the dark; temporary or permanent blindness; gazes as objectification)
228. Vulnerability
229. Warriors (see Heroes; Amazons and strong women; Toughness; Primitivism; Rogues; Military fetishization)
230. Weapon fetishization (gun fu; trademark weaponry: Lara Croft's dual pistols, Duncan's katana; exotic weapons: war fans, whips; embedded: Wolverine's claws; magical/symbolic: Sting, Excalibur, Narsil; sentient or empathic; hiding a multitude of weapons on one's body; concealment in general: derringer in garter, boot knife; see other individual listings; Military fetishization)
231. Well-fucked (being fucked out; fuck-dazed; sated and sleepy; wrecked; softened and debauched)
232. Wings (wingfic)
233. Worry (one character worrying anxiously about another; going crazy with worry)
234. Writing (love letters or notes; secret admirers; e-mail and chat; wills; poetry; storytelling; tracing words or figures on skin, or writing, as with an inkbrush)